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How To Act Out The Fantasy Of Rape Without Getting It Badly Wrong!?

My girlfriend wants me to literally rape her while she struggles etc
I mean wtf what if she changes her mind and means it!?
What if someone comes in and thinks its real!?
What would you advise?

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7 Comments

  1. Emma
    Posted February 27, 2010 at 7:52 pm | Permalink

    I’d advise you take this somewhere else, frankly, and I’m pretty much an everything goes type of person, but this just ain’t P&S material…

  2. ?
    Posted February 27, 2010 at 8:08 pm | Permalink

    A fantasy of rape should not be confused with a real rape.
    It’s not unusual or unhealthy for a woman to enjoy having
    a secret rape fantasy, such as by imagining herself as a
    irresistibly desirable romantic heroine who’s swept off her
    feet and ardently ravished by the man of her dreams.
    Your girlfriend wishes to explore something of herself
    sexually by sharing her intimate fantasy with you.
    She and you should discuss how much of her fantasy
    should be scripted (words, actions, costumes, etc.)
    and how much should be spontaneous. She and you
    should discuss the boundaries of what you are allowed
    to say and to do during her ’safe’ rape fantasy.
    Acting out a rape fantasy (with mutual consent) is not
    too different from acting out any other dramatic scene
    except that there’s a risk that the ‘rape victim’ might
    become uncomfortable or feel that she’s being violated
    in an unexpected way. She and you should agree in
    advance on some code word(s) to insure her safety.
    For example, if she says ‘yellow’, it means that she’s
    becoming uncomfortable and you should slow down
    and proceed with caution. If she says ‘red’, it means
    that you should stop completely as soon as possible.
    With enough maturity, trust, and communication
    between a man and a woman, a rape fantasy could
    be enjoyed as part of a couple’s sexual role-playing.

  3. P!nk Hair Female Aviator
    Posted February 27, 2010 at 8:36 pm | Permalink

    Ask her to look at this and see if she still wants to do it:http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind…

  4. Ralph
    Posted February 27, 2010 at 9:04 pm | Permalink

    This is not from experience but have a safe word, if she says that word then stop. Don’t make it anything that can be confused with what you are doing.

  5. *♥* donna *♥*
    Posted February 27, 2010 at 9:38 pm | Permalink

    Therapy?

  6. Delilah
    Posted February 27, 2010 at 10:34 pm | Permalink

    Have a code-word which means stop, for example, apples.
    If she says apples, then you’ll have to stop

  7. Untoucha
    Posted February 27, 2010 at 10:44 pm | Permalink

    Robin is that you…..?

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