My girlfriend wants me to literally rape her while she struggles etc
I mean wtf what if she changes her mind and means it!?
What if someone comes in and thinks its real!?
What would you advise?
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My girlfriend wants me to literally rape her while she struggles etc
I mean wtf what if she changes her mind and means it!?
What if someone comes in and thinks its real!?
What would you advise?
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I’d advise you take this somewhere else, frankly, and I’m pretty much an everything goes type of person, but this just ain’t P&S material…
A fantasy of rape should not be confused with a real rape.
It’s not unusual or unhealthy for a woman to enjoy having
a secret rape fantasy, such as by imagining herself as a
irresistibly desirable romantic heroine who’s swept off her
feet and ardently ravished by the man of her dreams.
Your girlfriend wishes to explore something of herself
sexually by sharing her intimate fantasy with you.
She and you should discuss how much of her fantasy
should be scripted (words, actions, costumes, etc.)
and how much should be spontaneous. She and you
should discuss the boundaries of what you are allowed
to say and to do during her ’safe’ rape fantasy.
Acting out a rape fantasy (with mutual consent) is not
too different from acting out any other dramatic scene
except that there’s a risk that the ‘rape victim’ might
become uncomfortable or feel that she’s being violated
in an unexpected way. She and you should agree in
advance on some code word(s) to insure her safety.
For example, if she says ‘yellow’, it means that she’s
becoming uncomfortable and you should slow down
and proceed with caution. If she says ‘red’, it means
that you should stop completely as soon as possible.
With enough maturity, trust, and communication
between a man and a woman, a rape fantasy could
be enjoyed as part of a couple’s sexual role-playing.
Ask her to look at this and see if she still wants to do it:http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind…
This is not from experience but have a safe word, if she says that word then stop. Don’t make it anything that can be confused with what you are doing.
Therapy?
Have a code-word which means stop, for example, apples.
If she says apples, then you’ll have to stop
Robin is that you…..?